<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2357079233544107217</id><updated>2009-02-20T18:54:03.434-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Personal Development Tips</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personal-developmentblog.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2357079233544107217/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personal-developmentblog.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>rajan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06821212817848101011</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2357079233544107217.post-3457553306979799244</id><published>2007-12-19T23:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-19T23:33:05.759-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Challenging Social Self Environment and Development Support</title><content type='html'>It is amazing how easily humans find it to put off the challenging concepts of relationships and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;love. This has just become a phenomenon that will take care of them with no serious thought. They&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;should aware of the fact that a loving relationship can nourish human behavior to be positive and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;long lasting and give their lives a more fundamental meaning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Challenge yourself to a loving relationship in which you can be yourself, even your loved one. Be&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;able to laugh; cry; love life; love yourself and in return be loved back. This relationship would be&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;based upon freedom and would never grow into a jealous heart. You can totally be yourself, be&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;accepted  and understood; Trusted and respected as a valuable human being. This is a challenging&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;effort to provide a caring and secure  environment so that one can share all their fears and hopes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and be encouraged to grow and learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy the challenge of a loving relationship that offers one comfort in the present of another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Through words or body language you share mutual trust; honesty; devotion; and that special thrill of&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;being together. Accept the other person into your relationship as being whole and you will receive&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the same acceptance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The challenge of the social self will let you see that in a loving relationship you’re beloved one as&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;being unique; forever becoming and a beautiful individual. This will allow you and your loved one to&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;find that special “I” , which allows the blending of yourselves without the fear of loss of self.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A loving relationship will challenge you to an active change into a bonding reciprocal , which&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;encourages and almost demands the qualities necessary to show your lover you can be all he or she&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;wants you to be and in return be they will be able to do the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There should be no doubt that you want a strong and more creative way of loving each other. This is&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;obvious a challenge to accomplish and exert all the necessary effort involved. This challenge will&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;not be an easy one, but it will help if you are to continue  in knowing yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t find yourself with so much and still suffer from one of the most dangerous states of poverty;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the inability to express your love with an open and honest affection and without fear. It takes very&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;little to open your arms up to another. This is one of the most important challenges you must take.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take a challenge together in your loving relationship. This would allow both parties to feel loved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and accepted that you can share all of your inner most feelings; dreams; and your successes. This is&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;a give and take challenge. Both parties will find this as an equal importance to the growth of your&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy the trust and acceptance of each other. You will find that it creates a warm loving sense of&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;security and contentment. Both parties involved will find unlimited support and strength upon they&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;can always draw from.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With each challenge a relationship will grow with understanding and a loving acceptance to each&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;other’s differences, which will encourage each party involved to reach out and share as much beauty&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and love as there is possible to find.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is very obvious that each challenge is rather exciting in a relationship. This should remain&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;defined in your mind and agreed upon by each individual involved in the relationship. Each of you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;will find that it requires more trust; commitment; and total honesty. For some it may mean a less&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;restrictive involvement. You should always think of the constellation of all the possibilities before&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;you ever tell another to, “Come into your life.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2357079233544107217-3457553306979799244?l=personal-developmentblog.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personal-developmentblog.blogspot.com/feeds/3457553306979799244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2357079233544107217&amp;postID=3457553306979799244' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2357079233544107217/posts/default/3457553306979799244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2357079233544107217/posts/default/3457553306979799244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personal-developmentblog.blogspot.com/2007/12/challenging-social-self-environment-and.html' title='Challenging Social Self Environment and Development Support'/><author><name>rajan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06821212817848101011</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12834667236185128964'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>